I am with a guy who I am not having sex with but I am very much not a virgin. When we fool around he fingers me and every time, a day or so after, I kinda bleed. It is kinda brown cloty stuff. He is kinda rough but I like that and he is very medically knowledgeable as he is a medical student and very interested in the womens body. He makes it a point to know everything about anything that he is interested in. So he is careful to do everything right.And he keeps his nails very short and makes sure everything is safe so as not to hurt me.I did just start birth control but this happened a couple times before the birth-control. Also I had my period two weeks ago and started the birth control the day my period ended but as I said this happened before the birth control as well also in the middle of the cycle.It doesn’t hurt in anyway, Its just kind of annoying ya know. Before him I was in a very long relationship and this never happened with sex. My ex didn’t really finger me so it has being years since I have been fingered. So I would like to know what it is and why it happens with fingering and not sex? I would ask him and he could probably tell me but he is very worried about hurting me , Cause he is a little rough which I like a lot and I don’t want him to change anything he is doing cause it all feels right. So just some advice or maybe reassurance that it’s ok. Anything would help really..Thanks!!

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   ok he may just be streching you out bc that happend to me with my x.. and i figured out that he was just really rough and he was moving his fingers around more than i was used to…. u r fine i promise… u will notice that the it goes away after a while