so i am like really close with my boyfriend of 2 years and i love him more than evrything but theres 1 problem…he constantly tickles me! I am sooooooooo ticklish everywhere on my body and its hard to take when someone tickles me. today we were watching tv and he pinned me down and tickled me for about 30 minuites and he has tickled me intensely for the past couple months. One time he even had his frends come and pin me down so he could tckle me. I am not going to let this end our relationship cuz when hes not doing this he is so amazing. Why does he do this and how do i tell him to stop? whenever i bring it up he starts again so please help me!

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   Talk to him about it at a time where he can’t tickle you, like when he is driving or you are in a public place. Explain that is actually hurts and that he really needs to stop. Being serious and don’t put up with him turning into a joke. Say that its something that has to change. It could turn into a great conversation that makes your relationship deeper. Be open to him making suggestions about how you could change your behavior. Communication is the key. Good luck!
   PS – I’ve have this problem too. But I confronted him while he was driving and made him promise to stop after I explained how much I really didn’t like it.