I have a problem with my boyfriend. lately when we talk on the phone we don`t talk at all. We used to talk like so much. But after like one min on the phone he always says he has to go. Does my boyfriend love me anymore? please help me our relationship is lasting a while, 1 year and three months. I don`t want our relationship to be over because i love him so much.

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   Guys do not like to talk on the phone that much especially if you call him everyday. You might be invading his time away from you he needs it, let him be the one to call you or schedule when you guys are going to talk so you don’t catch him at a bad time. He had a life before you came along and it probably is still there. You should find other things to do when yoou feel the urge to call him like read a magazine, go get your nails done, take a nap, etc. I’m not saying this to be mean but If the shoe was on the other foot I think you would feel the same way. Also think that there are only so many things that happen in a day or even a week that are worthy of sharing with him or him with you, I mean are you going to tell him that you had a banana for breakfast and it made you bloated or something like that? is he going to tell you that he was shaving and the water started to turn cold on him? what would be the point of that? it would make for real boring conversation, instead tell him that you are going to talk to him less and see how he reacts, if he say ok and does not put interest into why then I think he might not be into you anymore if on the other hand he does ask you why tell him why and there is something worthy to talk about.
   Good luck!

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   Guys don’t converse as often or as long as girls do. That’s part of why girls tend to have higher verbal scores.
   I would talk to him about how often he likes to chat on the phone. This is one of those things that involves the boundaries of two people and so it kind of needs to be negotiated.

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   I know from personal experience that many guys absolutely hate the phone. At first, they would make the sacrifice, but after the initial novelty of the relationship wears off,
   they refuse to talk more than they have to. I would think that is your true problem. He might still be loving you, but would rather talk to you, say online, or in person.
   If he really did stop loving you, you should be able to see it from other signs. Did his treatment of you changes in any other way? If so, he might have found another girl.
   If not, it’s just a phone issue that bothers him and all you have is to accept his problem and find an alternative solution. Depending on your situation, online connection, regular mail, or talking in person may be best.
   Good Luck.

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   he probably doesn’t like you calling so much – i always hated that with my girlfriend but i always loved her so so much. im sure he loves you too, but he just doesn’t want to tlak for so long so often. so tell him about this (if you can) and lay-off the phone for a while and give him some breathing space.

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   No one can really answer the question of whether or not your boy still loves you anymore or not. You would have to ask him – just don’t come out and say “You don’t love me anymore!” It will only upset him – I know.. . Maybe he really IS busy…? Don’t get too upset – just ask him what you want to know… you guys have been together for a while, so I’m sure he’d tell you if he still loves you or not if you ask him.. if not, may be he is unsure.
   [sighs] I am unsure whether my boy loves me or not too – he told me that he still does but when he did, he didn’t look into my eyes… I’m just as confused as you girl.. just saw that no one had responded and was hoping to help.

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   dont call him because its not good to a girl calling him on a phone… just understand him maybe his busy doing activities with his family…

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   naughty sexy doing unmentionble things etccc

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   your boyfriend is cheating on you thats what my boyfriend

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   Hi There. I really hate to say this, but I was the same way with my ex right before we broke up. Rather than just admit to you that he wants to move on, he is pulling your strings and obviously toying with your emotions. I regret doing what I did, but I was “young and dumb”.
   I think you need to confront him and ask him exactly where you two stand. The longer this goes on, the more you will hurt later.
   Good Luck Hon

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    men are very pysicail beings (alot more then women) so they give away there intensions by what they do…likewise women ussually give away there internsions by what they say
    most women that have figured out that thier man no longer loves them, figure it out by little things…maybe walking a little farther apart not saying i love you untill you say it(all of a sudden)(if he never say’s that then don’t use that as a reason)…it won’t be one thing it will be a combation of things with men…if the only reason you have to dought him is the phone calls maybe he just doesn’t like to be on the phone…it wouldn’t be the first time i guy would do something for a girl hoping that whatever he was doing, you would get tired of it sooner or later.