I have a boyfriend and i like him alot. But i also like another guy too. My boyfriend gets in trouble alot and thts the only thing i dont like about him. I like them the same. I dont know if i should break up with my boyfriend or dump him for the other guy?Please help!!

10 Comments so far

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   follow your heart….go with what feels right to you.

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   dont break up w/ him hell like die

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   depends how you really feel
   . but if you bf gets you in trouble too, then i think you should dump him. and wait a while to go for the other guy.

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   How are random strangers supposed to decide who you will go out with you based just on the vague information you replied. Think about and you have to make your own decision.

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   i had this problem before, i almost left my boyfriend of 1 year, then i thought about what i was doing and how much i would regret it. figure out who makes you happier and follow your heart.

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   First of all you need a guy who has his sh*t together! If you respect yourself, then your man will respect you. You should be with the the one that is a better man for you and for your future!

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   you should break up with him, what are u waiting on. He’ll get you into trouble if you don’t end the relationship.

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   You should never break up with someone just because you want to be with someone else. What do you mean by getting in trouble?
   Make the choice as if the second guy didn’t exist. If you want to stay with him (and he’s not a bad influence on you) do it.
   If not, make a clean break and wait a little while before you date someone else.

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   Your age (an theirs) makes a big difference.

   Does BF/GF mean –
   * hanging out at school and at the movies/mall – then keep them both. But be honest and communicate.
   “if you can’t go with me to see *** then i’d like to go with ***”
   “i’m seeing ***, but he’s busy friday so I’d love to go”

   * When your old enough and it becomes physical then you need to choose.

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    well i have that same problem and im going to stay with my boyfriend because i love him and i know that he loves me!