Am I overreacting My partner of 7 years who is from Italy is planning ato go go Home to Italy for a week he told me he could be taking his Guitar teacher with him who he does not know that well He sees once a week for an hour. This has annoyed me as I have been with all this time and have not been over with him he said I have had chances when I could. Am I stupid to feel this way he does not see anything wrong I do.

7 Comments so far

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   why is he taking a teacher with him?? Sounds very weird… you’r totally within your right to be odd over this! I would be fuming!
   xx

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   Well, why is your Partner considering to take his guitar teacher with him?
   You state he does not even know this Person well.
   I am unsure if you were invited to go to Italy with your Man, as you state that he states, You have had chances when you could.
   Even if you decided, for what ever reason, you never wanted to go on hols; to Italy, why is He taking his guitar teacher?
   Is he going to want ‘lessons’ on holiday?
   I would be concerned and fobbed off, albeit if I never wanted to go okay, but what is this guitar teacher invited for?
   I believe that you are NOT stupid to feel annoyed, we are all Human.
   If shoe was on the other foot how would your partner feel?
   I think you should sit down and have calm conversation about this holiday, and maybe your relationship on the whole.
   This is just my opinion, I don’t know much from your few lines, therefore I could be reading too much into it…..
   whatever you two do ….I hope it works out for the best.
   good luck.

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   You’re not overreacting at all!!! I would be a bit peeved if I was in your situation to say the least!! I don’t want to put doubt in your mind, but is there a possibility there is something going on between him and his guitar teacher? This was my first thought. Just sit him down and calmly ask why he is not taking you with him. Surely after 7 years together he must be able to explain this to you. Good luck xxx

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   you have been with him 7 years and he is not taking you?
   have you had these chances he says youve had?
   if you have why didnt you go?
   maybe he feels let down because you didnt go with him before
   try to see it from his point of view and talk to him dont argue
   see if you can change his mind about this

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   So you have been together for 7 years, as a couple and he wants to take his guitar teacher?
   Tell him to take his guitar teacher to Italy and not to come back to you.

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   I think your boyfriend is the stupid one, why does he need to take his guitar teacher, this situation sounds very strange to me!
   I think that you need to speak with yor boyfriend and talk this through with him x

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   You are not over reacting at all.
   That is very strange.
   I hope you both can work something out. I would defiently be upset if my boyfriend was doing that.