hello im a bit embarrassed about this but, here goes, i really want to have sex with my boyfreind we have been together for 7 months and im 19 ive never had sex before and i already know that my boyfreinds penis is a lot bigger than average is going to extremely hurt and what can i do to prevent or decrease this pain !!!!! HELP xX

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   Just try to relax, don’t skip the foreplay, use lubrication and take it slow. You may experience some slight tearing and discomfort after but it should go away with in a day or two.
   Don’t forget protection! Trojan offers condoms for the larger male (Magnums and Magnum XLs).

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   Just work it in slowly, don’t try to rush it

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   Not much you can do about it. It’s going to hurt, but the pain should subside quickly, and then if he is any good, it will feel good. Just work it in slowly, don’t try to rush it.

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   Wait! You are nineteen already, just wait. You’ll have the rest of your life to have sex with your husband. It does hurt the first time no matter what, and I guarentee you, you’ll wish you had waited for your husband. Its something to be proud of.

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   yeah just do alot of foreplay to get you all wet… that will let his penis get in easier… it will hurt at first but not so bad i don’t think where you won’t enjoy it… the guy i am dating now is big and it’s good… it hurt alot at first but after about 5 minutes it was all good… if he has more lenght than thickness that’s always better….when their long then it hits up in your stomach and stuff.

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   if you are that nervous don’t have sex.why would you think it’s going to hurt it his that big? i have news for you the first time is not going to be comfortable anyway. kc

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   Heres the best way to prevent the pain…DON’T DO IT!!! wait till your married…

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   don’t go overboard