My boyfriend is 21 and doesnt masterbate at all. He also has problems getting hard and when we have sex, it’s only for a minute MAX and then he cums. Its frustrating both of us. What can we do to make him last longer?

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   A simple fix would be masturbation. If he or you do it for him…does this more often, it will help.

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   i would try a little forplay. maybe watch a porn first. if not go to a local adult store and get some erection cream . maybe your local wal-mart might have some, the adult store would for sure. It comes in a little tube and is to aid with premature troubles. I think there are a few different kinds.

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   maybe hes gay?

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   To be honest, dumb him and find a better one. If you don’t care about sex, then stick with him.

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   It sounds like he may be uneasy. Help him to relax, foreplay is always helpful. Talk about things, ask him what he likes, and doesn’t,t like! Try visuals! If that doesn’t work then I suggest he see a Doctor.

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   Tell him to play with it so he can get accustomed to the feel of delaying it.

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   go to a doctor