sex tips……………?

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why is it so much harder for a girl to orgasm then a guy? i mean the sex is great but i’ve never actually had an orgasm and i want to! haha any tips? i just wanna try something new and have fun and possibly orgasm sorry if that’s to much info at all! but any idea would be great! thanks xx


29 Comments so far


  1. I think its 6 of one a half dozen of the other.


  2. guy dont get themm….


  3. the guy has 2 concentrate on ur clit..whether it be oral, or a hand job…thats the magic to an orgasm


  4. Try being on top and sit straight up. It always works for me.


  5. No


  6. honestly, this is how i do it
    think about something that turns u on while ur guys are fooling around
    fool around longer it will get u more stimulated for sex
    ***rub ur (rhymes with blit) while he is inside u*****


  7. hah yes it is hard to get an orgasm, playing with the clit usually makes in happen. maybe try in on top next time. practice makes perfect :)


  8. You probably want to keep trying or maybe use a vibrator.


  9. put you finger on the skin down their and
    rub it. i read that in a magazinee.
    also watch porn on like google.
    (:

    please do one of my questions!


  10. before you have actual intercourse you should get yourself excited ahead of time like before he comes over. play with urself and try to reach orgasm by urself. that way wen he does do it then you will already be close to reachin it


  11. try to take in conttol and ride him like you never ride him b4


  12. that is all based on you! sure the guy has to do good and all, but you have to help as well. it’s not all COMPLETELY him. you know? you may be trying to hard…just let it happen. also, when us guys go to work…we get tunnel vision. we see the finish line…and dats exactly where we are headed.


  13. Focus on stimulating your Clitoris girl! That is where the action is. Its rare for women to orgasm thru intercourse alone. Good Luck.


  14. It’s hard for a lot of women to have an orgasm off of vaginal stimulation only, try to use clitoral stimulation while you are having sex and i’m sure you will be having orgasms in no time.


  15. have him give you oral sex to warm you up first, or else he’ll come too soon for you… or he could use his fingers… point is you need to e stimulated before he starts


  16. i think its because we have more aspects and needs that need to be met.

    i have the same problem. ive noticed i dont get stimulated by “g-spot” action, but i can only orgasm from “clit” stimulation…


  17. the story my girlfriend told me…

    she had never orgasmed, so one day she decided she was going to change all of it even if she had to do it herself. so she bought a couple ‘toys’ and just experimented for a few weeks. finally one night she was relaxed and wasnt thinking about it and she got it. after that, she knew more of what to feel for to make it come easier. however, she still couldnt ‘get off’ with a guy, only by herself. until she met me of course lol, but even still, i can only get her off like 1/4 of the time.


  18. Hi Emma, some girls get off on different things. maybe your guy just isn’t doing the right things to make you pop. I’ve had girls that orgasm with different things. One of the girls only came when I used my fingers, another only came when I used my tongue & yet another one only came when I used my thing. Ask your partner to try different techniques & I’m sure you’ll cream eventually. Hope I helped!


  19. i think that you should do stuff to yourself while the guy is having sex with you… or if not just tell him to keep doing a movement that you know you like. if you tell him to keep on and you are really into it, then you can have an orgy… but it depends if the guy has an orgy first then you…

    My friend told me that she gets orgys when the guy is ont top of her and her boyfriend is right next to her ear. When he keeps on, thats when she gets the orgy… just try something new with your partner or try it for yourself…

    hope i hhelped..


  20. have him, or yourself, play with your clitoris while your having sex. whether your on top or in the missionary position. i have the same problem and this helps me.. well yea.. lol.. enjoy!!


  21. Does the guy you are having sex with orgasm fast?

    No you did not give to much info you actually gave too little explain situation a little more :)

    If the guy orgasms fast have him masturbate before you have sex then he will last longer and you may have an orgasm :)

    Good Luck


  22. Well this works for my girl…& this is the only way she gets hers…I think its different for every girl….try being on top & making it rough & slow…..make thre guy grab you…& kiss u & turn u on….but forsure try slow & rough..


  23. try to relax and enjoy the experience and don’t worry about having an orgasm – if all is right between you two it will come eventually – good luck!!


  24. From a biological viewpoint, you don’t have an easy orgasm because in ancient times, there was no need for females to have a lot of sex. You only need to be pregnant once, and the orgasm isn’t a requirement.
    Now, you don’t care about this.
    Now, in order to have an orgasm.. masturbate, get a toy, talk to your partner, fantasize ..


  25. Make sure you do a “”lot”" of foreplay and have your man use the head of his penis not to go inside but to message your clit and use [plenty] of KY jelly on the head of his penis and on your clit. Also just as he is about to orgasm have him quickly stop until his organs settle down. Once his urge to orgasm has slowed he can start moving again slowly. You both can do this 3/4 times if you want and it will build his and your orgasm higher for much more pleasure. Be sure you take birth control pills,, not a condom, they break.


  26. Women got a lot of erogenous zones (for men) so try find her sensitive spot like nipples, neck, back etc and obv her p***y..whether kissed, sucked, eaten, or licked..


  27. well girls get orgasms which are kinda hard,
    i got mine after the 4th time me and my boyfriend had sex,
    it’s an amazing feeling though, be on top, that usually works,
    let him eat you out and finger you before you have sex,
    it will come easier.


  28. play with ur clitoris. even if u feel ur self have faster breaths, keep breathing in long deep breaths, and dont forget 2 give in to the sensations, and imagine ur body letting go when u orgasm.


  29. orgasm’s are just easy for guys, thats there goal when they have sex is to finish. so the girls should have that as a goal too! =)




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