Comments on: Womens Advice???

By: ALYC

ALYC — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 12:57:17 +0000

never rush things in a relationship… you said its a whole year of commitment..what if you get into a marriage…that would be a whole life commitment..be patient..
only do it when she is ready..it takes two to tango you know…
if one person its not ready, the whole spark thing between you guys will just fade away…gone..
a woman’s heart is very sacred… once you broke her heart, that would be the worst thing… trust will be gone for sure if you change your mind and ask her a second chance..
guys and girls are very different…girls want to have good relationship and build stronger trust in each other and not rush things…
what if you had sex, and somthing went wrong.. a baby comes along.. and you are stuck being a father..
its up to you dude

By: angelic_

angelic_ — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 12:00:27 +0000

You can only talk to her about it but be careful the fact you haven’t done it yet might be because she still isn’t ready. Don’t push to hard, you may lose her.

By: sunsetdr

sunsetdr — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 11:37:25 +0000

You don’t or it’s over. She’s not ready. If you are then move on. It’s better that way.
When it’s over everything changes, I’m not sure you’re ready for that. You just want sex. She is planning a family.

By: AppleSod

AppleSod — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 11:19:25 +0000

Ask her if she’s ready for it, just give her a heads up saying “Whenever u’re ready to have sex let me know” or “Are you ready to take this relationship to another step?”

By: paja

paja — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 10:36:05 +0000

ermmm…talk to her?

By: angelie

angelie — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 09:52:45 +0000

talk to her

By: outlaw.h

outlaw.h — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 09:32:42 +0000

take her to a farm that has rabbits! get her in the barn with the rabbit cages, take the boy rabbit and throw it in the girl rabbits cage and watch how she reacts!

By: Snifer

Snifer — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 08:55:47 +0000

talk to her

By: la_la_sw

la_la_sw — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 08:15:14 +0000

just tell her…preferably during a makeout session so it doesnt seem to wierd to bring it up out of the blue..good luck man. oh dont forget to stretch those hammies..

By: gini

gini — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 07:33:07 +0000

If she is very religious and wants to wait till marriage, thats something you have to accept and you have to ask yourself if you can cope with that. Otherwise, try to find out if there is anything in her past that made her so careful. But CAREFULLY!!!!!. If not, be honest and tell her that you have needs and you don´t want to hurt her but really want to take it that step further. I would prefere a man to be honest then pushing a problem around with him that could affect the relationship.